Thursday, June 3, 2010
Final Post: ZAMM and "Ego Climbing"
For the first 1/2 of your response, answer the following: Do you agree or not, and why? Briefly explain why you think the narrator believes this. Is his strong opinion related to Phaedrus in any way?
For the second 1/2 of your response, answer the following: What about you and your ego goal of going to college and making a future for yourself? How would you personally respond to the narrator.
Developed responses to both sets of questions are required for full points!
RESPONSES DUE BY THE START OF CLASS ON TUESDAY, JUNE 8TH.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
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My response to the group:
I enjoyed reading everyone’s responses. What I noticed was the majority of you felt that:
1. You felt the classical mode of understanding and the romantic mode of understanding were both valuable.
2. You took a romantic approach toward understanding some things and took a classical approach to understanding others.
3. You were equally split over whether the classical and romantic approaches to understanding were reconcilable.
Because you all thought along the same lines, I wanted to offer up a group response to your posts, rather than responding to each individual post. To be honest, I was a little confused by your conclusions. Most of you admit to using both approaches to understanding and you say both approaches to understanding go together well. Below is a follow up question for you to ponder:
Since you admit to using both, do you have a reason for using one mode of understanding over the other?
a. If so, what is it? (Because if there’s a good reason for using one mode at one point and another mode at another point, then they’re not really irreconcilable are they?)
b. If you don’t have a reason for using one over the other—and my guess is most of you don’t—then hadn’t you better simply choose sides? Why on earth use both modes at random? What kind of understanding do you get when you flip flop modes without reason?
Another thing I’d like for you to consider:
Are you really as romantic in your thinking as you think you are?
Dare I suggest that you—as the inheritors of the technological fruit brought about hundreds of years of classical thinking in the Western world—are all actually people who function in the classical mode almost exclusively? Isn’t it true that most of say we also think romantically because we are afraid to fully “come out of the classical closet” because we fear being labeled “square” or “uncool”? Think about it. How many of you do things on a wim? How many of you fail to look both ways before you cross the street instinctually trusting it will work out okay? How many of you think about consequences before you break a rule? Some of you may wear your hair differently or dress differently, but how differently? Aren’t your choices still calculated for effect? Isn’t the truth that living and comprehending the world using a romantic mind set is actually quite difficult in our technological, rational society? Admit it: don’t you think rationally a lot more than you want to think or admit you do?
In the 60s, we have seen a huge split develop between a classic culture and a romantic counterculture—two worlds growingly alienated and hateful toward each other with everyone wondering if it will always be this way. This split between those who embrace technological change and those who resist it obviously still exists, but not as much any more. Didn’t classical understanding win the day with a vengeance? Of course, we’re not exactly proud to admit it. We want to keep up romantic appearances.
Is this not what Steve Jobs has attempted to tap into and to profit from by creating a computer with romantic appeal? Apple has been particularly style conscious and has attempted to make the interface as transparent as possible—it’s got romantic appeal. What Jobs realized is that even though most of us don’t think romantically, we all like to think we do. Consider his TV marketing strategy: PCs are for suits and people with no personality—classical thinkers—individuals choose Apple computers—that Mac guy is so hip! But aren’t we just kidding ourselves? It is still a computer, isn’t it??? Aren’t Apple buyers just like John with his BMW motorcycle? It’s still a motorcycle but he doesn’t want to admit he values the classical vision that made it possible. But perhaps I digress…
Whether we’re closet “classical thinkers” or not, Pirsig believes there is still a real problem with the classic / romantic split. Most of you admitted, both approaches have value, but you also admitted they are irreconcilable with each other. There’s no clear way to live your life in both modes. It’s not that you can’t, but you end up being hypocritical since in the end you just mix modes with no rhyme or reason.
But just what is the nature of this crisis Pirsig feels is around us? While he never explicitly states it, at fundamental level it concerns our confused relationship with technology. Technology has fragmented our relationship with nature (which technology appropriates), each other (technology makes human interaction less necessary), and ourselves (technology can distract us from our own concerns). To quote Andrew Sneddon, Associate Professor of the Department of Philosophy, Ottawa University: “Seemingly indifferent to human values and developing under its own logic, technology increasingly isolates us from our natural environment, from one another, and even from ourselves. For though we may be in touch with Belgrade or Tokyo, our lives have lost much temporal and spatial wholeness or sanity. We are often physically and even emotionally closer to fabricated media "personalities" than we are to the person across the breakfast table. Yet whereas we are never left alone by our technology, we are increasingly lonely, alienated from our deepest selves. For we have lost touch with our own feelings, being educated to ignore them in order to function in a technological world. …We are so uneducated about our inner feelings that we only learn to talk about them when we "break down," and have to be repaired by the analyst, at the Group, or in the asylum. For, we learn, our feelings distort our "objective" perceptions, and thus prevent us from functioning like our machines. In this vein, Andy Warhol wryly recalls that he had always wanted to be like a machine, for then it was easier to get along with people. We thus find ourselves fragmented, our feelings alienated from our world, our lives as well as our literature being characterizable by T. S. Eliot's phrase, ‘dissociation of sensibility.’"
Parallel to this public, cultural crisis of technologically-induced fragmentation, Pirsig faces his own personal crisis of fragmentation or "madness." Some years earlier he had been declared clinically insane, and underwent electro-shock therapy to annihilate his mad personality. This earlier self, whom he now calls "Phaedrus," had gone mad as a result of a search for Truth which led him ultimately to repudiate Reason itself. Pursuing the "ghost of reason" through Western science, Eastern philosophy, and rhetoric, Phaedrus found Reason to be "emotionally hollow, esthetically meaningless and spiritually empty" (Pirsig 110). But he had no place to flee; and, without an alternative to Reason, he simply went mad. Pirsig's personal crisis arises when he encounters and is forced to struggle with his earlier self, the haunting figure of Phaedrus who now beckons him back into madness.
The crisis of technology demands a response; for as in all crises a failure to act itself functions as an action. One response is to flee, as Pirsig's friends John and Sylvia do in trying to escape the "death force" which they see in technology. But being economically dependent on technology, they cannot effectively flee, and are forced to take refuge in a false romanticism (like we all tend to do—especially Mac users!!) which leaves them impotently resentful of technology.
But if flight is not a solution, equally dangerous is the failure to see the crisis as a crisis, and to respond as if one were merely encountering another "problem" to be solved with procedures which employ and reinforce the very technology which constitutes the crisis. Such a response is made by those whom he labels "classicists," people who would argue that if we are low on fossil fuel we simply need build nuclear power plants; or if threatened by swifter missiles simply construct a sophisticated missile-defense shield. For Pirsig, such a failure to perceive the crisis may well ultimately lead to annihilation. Pirsig does not explicitly reject the use of "technological" means to solve technological problems; he encourages, for example, well-tuned motorcycles, precise door latches and non-leaking faucets. His object of attack is not all technologies or even technological capacities; rather it is what he calls a technological "attitude" which fails to perceive the limitations of technique and the values implicit in its use.
To respond adequately to his crises, Pirsig finds that he must reject the tendency to act as if he were simply solving another "problem." For in this and in many crises, we do not yet encounter a clear-cut "problem" or well-formulated puzzle to solve with conventional procedures. A crisis is a rip or tear in the fabric of our understanding, a rupture which demonstrates the very inadequacy of our procedures. Further, we must often cut through the current inadequate formulations of "problems" in the crisis in order to reveal its real disjunctions. For the inadequate formulations, with their deceptively adequate procedures, perpetuate both the crisis and our inability to grasp it. As Richard Coe argues, "the decision to perceive whatever you are investigating as a 'problem' is already a bias and contains an implicit decision about the appropriate procedures to follow. Many of our current and recent crises result in some degree from the biases implicit in 'problem-solving' procedures" (Coe 64).
To respond adequately to a crisis we must disclose our presuppositions and formulate a new way of perceiving and functioning. Pirsig is going to do this in your future chapters by creating a whole new paradigm of rationality—hang on to your hats folks.
Monday, May 17, 2010
Post 7
Classical vs. Romantic Perpectives
I have to say that I dont think I fall into any of those catagories. There are times where classical thinking is more appropriate than romantic and vice versa. For example when something stops working and needs to be fixed, it makes more sense to me to just fix it the most logical and scietific way, that way theres almost no room for mistakes. I would use a more romantic approach when probably doing a project for school. Rather than just write a boring paper on something I've learned, I would much rather choose to do something more artistic, showing my creative side.
I don't think it's necessary to fall into just one of those labels, creative or romantic. A person is much more dynamic if they carry different qualities, you got to change it up.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Post 7
I tend to use primarily the classical mode of thinking. I am persuaded more by facts than feelings in an argument, and am more interesting in studying science over art (though I do like both). While I can appreciate artistic beauty, I need to see a greater underlying point to really enjoy something. For example, I did not really enjoy the novel Girl with a Pearl Earring, because the writer used a very descriptive, metaphor-laden style for the sole purpose of making the writing seem beautiful (to mimic the style of a painting). This didn’t seem to have much point beyond creating beauty, and as a result I did not like the book very much.
I do agree that the two modes of thought have value and are irreconcilable with one another, but think it’s necessary to add that an individual can switch between one mode and the other. Very few people will approach everything from purely the classical mode or purely the romantic mode all of the time. For example, though I use primarily the classical point of view, I am able to look at a painting and be awed by its beauty (using the romantic point of view). I can then examine it more carefully and see the different techniques the artist used to create the painting’s overall effect (using the classical point of view), and the awe at seeing what the painting is will be replaced with appreciation of what the painting means. Both modes of thought will therefore provoke meaningful reactions, but cannot be used simultaneously.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
The Great Debate
I can't say that I belong to either view point. Some of the time I see things in a romantic way; if it works and looks nice, I'll use it. If I see a car or jacket that is appealing and functions well, then I respect it. However, I feel like I am also a classical person especially when I'm forced to compare two similar objects. If I am given the choice between two of the same objects, like two jackets, two chairs or two shims, I will always pick the choice that is better constructed, even if they the both do a good job. Because of my background in sewing (where you build garments out of smaller individual pieces) I always tend to focus more on the item that is made better. For example, if I am given the choice between a designer leather jacket and a leather jacket from Wal-Mart, I would always choose the designer jacket. Although the designer jacket is much more expensive, I know for a fact that it's construction is superior to that of the Wal-Mart jacket. Some might say that if they do the same job to the same degree, it doesn't matter which one is chosen, but I disagree. If its made better, than I lean towards that one. For me, my view point flip flops between classical and romantic based on the situation and the object being observed.
I think each view is valid, but people should not be restricted to these two categories. I believe people should be able to decide on a view point based on their own identity. People should be allowed to choose one of these viewpoints or blend the two or pick a completely different view on the world.
Zen
The Great Modern Schism
Romantic: The understanding of what a thing is. It is often associated with the creative and imaginative qualities of the human being, but it can also come across as rather shallow. This way of thinking rejects the analytical knife.
There have been several mornings when I would put on this striped sweater and decided to take it off. The sweater is perfectly functional. It was perfect for those cold weekday mornings. It has long sleeves. It's warm. I just decided not to wear it. It just didn't fit the look I was looking for.
Last week, I went to Safeway and I really wanted peanut butter. I had a choice between the brand name peanut butter and the Safeway brand peanut butter. I went with the Safeway brand. What? It's the same thing, except it's cheaper. That's the logical choice.
I think these two anecdotes capture the walking contradiction that I am. In the first example, my decision was eventually decided by what the shirt was and not what it meant. I did not make the logical choice. I did not choose function over form. In the second example, I chose the peanut butter solely for logical purposes. I chose the Safeway brand for its function and paid no attention to it's form. I don't care if someone catches me buying Safeway brand peanut butter. Romantic and classical. Isn't that weird? It just seems like there are certain situations that lend themselves better to the classical perspective and others that lend themselves better to the romantic perspective.
But there is the problem? When is the one better and when is the other better? To be honest, on those days when I was debating whether or not to wear the shirt, it took me a long time to finally decide. In reflection, I guess it wasn't really a decision between whether or not to wear the shirt, but whether to use classical or romantic understanding to make the decision. Not only can competition between the two ways of understanding split people into factions but it can also split individuals in two (figuratively speaking of course).
I guess that's why I agree with the narrator's view. The split between classical and romantic has split me in two. They simply cannot work together on all issues. Sure, if the brand name peanut butter was cheaper, they would be working together. Or, if the sweater was not so 90s, they would work together. But, there are many circumstances when choices have both good form and good function. The two understandings just have two different priorities.
Romantic? Classical?
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Romantic VS Classical
It is possible to have both views coexist with each other. I think you may have to have a bit of a understanding of both to successful though. You must be able to think classicly to advance society and think classicly to enjoy life's bounties and be passionate.
I would describe myself as more of a classical person mostly because im not the romantic mode. I wouldn't describe myself as that creative or intuitive. When I do things, I like to know what the next step is or exactly how to do something, which is similar to what the classical perspective is.
I do not agree that these are irreconcilable or that either of these ways of living are valid. No one can live their life purely by facts and reasoning or by just imagination and creativity. there needs to be a mix which would make them not irreconcilable.
How Romantic...
Romantic v Classical
Romantic or classical ?
What category I fall under? Well that’s a tricky question. When it comes to work I tend to lean towards reason rather then my own feelings. Although I may want to socialize after school I choose to do my homework or go to work instead. I know if I don’t do my homework my grades will decline and if I take off work that means less money in my bank account. I choose facts over feelings. But some part of me thinks I fall under the romantic category too. The description of Romantic mode is “inspirational”, “imaginative”, “creative”, and “insightful” and these are all descriptions of me as a person as well. I like to be inspired and I like to inspire others, I like being imaginative and original, and I am a very understanding person; I like viewing other people’s perspectives rather just my own. When it comes to classes and occupations I prefer working with my emotional side then working with data. In math or science class everyone comes has to come up with the same conclusion but in English class everyone’s statement is different yet not technically wrong at the same time. And when it comes to writing I have a preference as well. I prefer writing short stories and poems instead of research papers. I guess I fall under both categories but a majority of me falls under romantic mode.
Robert M. Pirsige stated Romantic mode and classical mode are both “valid ways of looking at the world although irreconcilable with each other.” I agree that these are both irreconcilable ways but disagree that either way is valid. I don’t think it’s valid to live your life based on only emotion nor do I believe you can live a life base on pure facts. You are either missing out on happiness or loosing site of responsibilities. In psychology I learned that you can’t live life fixed in one perspective; you have to have a balance.
Monday, May 10, 2010
Blog Post #7: Ways of Looking at the World
POST DUE: Thursday, May 13th by start of class.
2 RESPONSES TO POSTS DUE: Tuesday, May 18th by the start of class.
Note: Remember to create your own post for your main response (your teacher modeled this in class). That way, people will be able to click on the word “comment” below your post to respond to what you said.
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
POSTING FOR QUESTION #6 HAS ENDED
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Mr. B
Thursday, March 25, 2010
//6C//
Growing up in a contemporary, privileged area, the notion that courtly love is something noble and far more meaningful than lust has been pushed onto me from all sides of society. Hollywood often portrays love as a conqueror above all, pulling on the heartstrings of viewers. Pop music often reflects on unrequited love of another. Last but not least, Shakespeare’s works are shoved down our throats in school, one of his most famous works of course being “Rome and Juliet”.
So what merit is there to “courtly love” when compared to plain and natural lust? First of all, there is a code for chivalry, giving it a sort of organized nature in contrast to lust’s primal and chaotic characteristics. Another bit worthy to note is that courtly love is not to change based on the fulfillment/consummation of the lover’s desire, when lust ultimately has one clear goal. Yet, aside from the stated differences, courtly love still wears quite the heavy albatross around its neck: the fact that acts of courtly love often pertain to acts of adultery.
I suppose that it is significant to note that courtly love began really only among the aristocracy during medieval times, as the aristocracy can be said to have far too much idle time to be up to any good. Naturally, adultery had long been rather commonplace in history; however it is with courtly love that something becomes amiss. The fact that the highly-educated aristocracy was the group to enact the code of chivalry combined with the notion that the aristocracy was likely also the group to record the events and history of the time seems to be an awfully suspicious two-some to me. Though it has survived in its ideals, I do not believe that courtly love can be held as any more morally acceptable—effectively only making lust more socially acceptable, as the plebes will follow the patricians.
B
Pain wouldn't be pain if it didn't come from something significant. For example, if a relationship never mattered or reached that intense level, then a break up usually shouldn't be too much to handle. But if it were the opposite, and the relationship was considered "true love" then it no doubt would have a negative, painful impact on the two partners.
But through my experiences, you don't quite have to be in love to experience this pain. As long as the other person was an important part of your life for quite some time, almost the same amount of pain can come through. Specifically for me, it was thinking that you're in love and having both sides in the relationship say it and pretend it, while probably just hoping the constant thought and words would turn it into actual love at some point. This was painful and confusing due to how significant the relationship was to me. But the argument could also go both ways in the sense that the relationship was a significant part of my life because it was painful. So in reality both make sense, but I think "pain because of a significant experience" comes first.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
B
Love is a really confusing subject because it is such a complicated emotion. This is perhaps because love is not a single emotion but a combination of many different emotions. Love is what causes the greatest happiness, joy, and, best of all, the feeling that someone wants you more than anyone else in the world. However, it also causes the worst emotions. The person who you love is the person who can hurt you the most, make you the most sad or angry, and cause you the most pain. Because love is such a strong emotion, the person who you love is the person who holds the most power over you. So to say that your experience with a certain person is more significant because of the pain doesn't quite make sense to me. It seems that the only reason your lover is able to cause you so much pain is because they are so significant to you that they have complete control over your emotions. Therefore, I believe that the cause of the pain of love (which is different than other kinds of pain because emotions that are caused by love are stronger than other emotions) must be the experience not the other way around.
Question 6B
6B
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
B - "Caught in a Bad Romance"
Love requires you to open your soul to another person, which in turn gives them the ability to hurt you, by say, leaving you or cheating on you. And if you do experience this let down, you will obviously feel pain. Some people may say that the reason you are feeling this pain is because your love was significant. In a serious relationship or marriage, each person puts a lot of effort into the relationship. The relationship also brings you happiness and you experience great things with your loved one. Other people may say that your love was so significant because you are feeling pain now that it is gone. Once the person has hurt you, you feel pain because the love and experiences you shared with each other have disappeared. This suffering that you go through is supposed to illustrate the significance of your relationship.
It is hard for me to decide which side I agree with because of the complexity of love itself, but I would say that I think we feel pain because the love was significant. Love is an extremely powerful emotion, with the ability to consume your thoughts and actions. It can even change your entire mind-set and way of thinking. When you are in love, you also share many special and significant experiences with your partner. Once that feeling and those experiences are ripped from you, you will most definitely feel extreme pain. And if your love had no significance in your life, wouldn't you not feel any pain once it ended? I also feel that if pain makes your love significant, that means pain is always a part of love, and that is untrue for those couples that "live happily ever after."
Question B
6B
6b
I believe that we feel pain because the experience is significant, not that the experience is significant because we feel pain. In every relationship, youre going to feel some kind of pain. Whether it's when it ends or something that happens during the relationship, youre going to feel pain at some point. I could see how people would think this though because in some relationships, you feel more pain then others. This is probably an indication that the relationship was special or something but I think that the other way is more indicative of a special experience.
The better experience you have in a relationship, the more painful it will be. If you love someone, youre emotions involving that person become a lot greater. When something happens that can cause pain and its more painful then normal, then thats when you know that the relationship that youre in is significant.
Ouch... That Was Significant
6C
Courtly love seems to be much more socially acceptable than eros, or lust. It seems much more polite, refined, and meaningful. But are the two really all that different?
There do seem to be many elements of courtly love that make it different than eros. Most obviously, courtly love is not necessarily consummated, as the man’s devotion is to an unattainable lady, so there may not even be a sexual side to the relationship. It also emphasizes restraint in conduct so the man does “nothing disagreeable that might annoy” the lady (according to Andreas Capellanus’s “The Art of Courtly Love”). This means that the man must be obedient and humble towards his love, constantly attempt to do what will please her, and avoid spending too much time with her (especially in public)--not exactly conducive to advancing a sexual relationship. Most significantly, courtly love claims that “character alone…is worthy of the crown of love,” not physical beauty (as with lust), and that love is held for one woman alone (whereas men can lust after many different women).
But let’s look a little more closely at these differences. Lust does not need to be acted upon to exist--so the first two differences don’t really prevent courtly love from being eros. And it turns out that all Capellanus means by “character” is social class (and acting in a manner befitting one’s social class)—all that really needs to be there is good breeding. So courtly love may focus on a little more than just good looks, but not by much. And besides this, courtly love does deal in a large part with physical beauty--it is supposed to spring from “the sight of and excessive meditation on the beauty of the opposite sex” and the desire for physical contact (sounds an awful lot like lust). So much for a sparkling personality and great sense of humor. How much more meaningful can that kind of focus be than lust’s?
These “differences” seem less like real deviations from lust and more like limitations imposed upon lust. For example: Take eros’s fundamental character, a love based on sexual attraction between two people. Now say the relationship might not be consummated, tell the man he has to act a certain way towards the woman, and say it only applies to one woman of a high enough class. These rules limit eros, to be sure, but they do not change its fundamental nature--and if followed, they turn it into courtly love. Courtly love is therefore not a completely new, legitimate form of love, but a way of imposing limitations upon eros to make it socially acceptable.
C
On one side, one could say that this was a true guide book of how people truly act when they are in love. It would be an ideal love for all people involved if people were to love for the measure of one’s character and not be overly devoted to the care of one’s body, even though attentiveness to personal health and hygiene are of importance and do not go unaddressed in this book. It is also a base for true love that if you truly love someone, that you can’t lust after other people at the same time. It is true that people who through there love around are no better than a shameless dog. Toying with other people’s emotions is never something to be handled lightly and is rightfully looked down upon in this text, further proving its legitimacy on the subject of love. It also provides a truthful insight that people generally act more kindly and of better character when they are in love, and that is an important part of true love because you can’t be in love with someone and be a jerk to them at the same time. It just wouldn’t be true love.
On the other hand, this book contradicts the ideas of true love in that the man must constantly bending over backwards to ever get the love of the one whom he is devoted to. In the first place, he contradicts himself when he says that love is attained by the meditation upon the beauty of the opposite sex, when later he says that it is the measure of someone’s character which should constitute love. Also it is ridiculous to think that the man should always be on his knees because he is afraid that he might lose the one he loves, because if it were true love, the woman would never consider lusting after another. He also goes on about how a man can never marry a woman “lower” in social status than himself, which angers me to no end because true love transcends all differences (or so I am led to believe) and money and social status should be much less important than love. It is also added that the man must go strutting around like a peacock because he does not want to seem unfit to fight to others when, once again, he had said before that it is but a measure of one’s character which should count.
Had he not made so many contradictions to the idea of true love which I hold, I would have said that it were a very good book in depiction of love. However I cannot accept the importance on which he places outward appearance and how hard the man must work to keep a fickle girls love.
B: The Painful Significance of Love
Maybe the memory of love is significant because it has had an impact on who a person is, and remembering is painful. In this case, it would seem that the love itself was already significant and pain comes with thinking about it. The process of loving could have shaped one's life because of the lessons it taught or the maturity it brought, in which case it would be significant but not because of pain. In this case, love would be significant because of how it effected a person in terms of who he or she truly is, not because of pain. Many great things are associated with love, and why would we be so in love with love if all it was was pain? Love isn't significant because it's painful, but the pain of love can be significant in one's life, and this pain can certainly cause significant changes. Even so, though, pain isn't what shapes love.
B
Eotional pain is alost always attached to love in soeway or another. Although many relationships occur and end without having that end result of emotional pain I believe that we know a relationship to be emotionaly painful because the relationship is important to us. The other side of the argument is that a relationship is significant because of the pain. Although pain does relate to significance I dont think they go in that order. This idea is saying that a relationship is only valid because we feel eotional pain, but when thinking about roamantic relationships I believe that they shouldnt be viewed that way.
Relationships are significant when the desire to be with another is so strong that they miss them at times etc, but this feeling is because of they strong bond and connection between the two people, the eotional pain itself doesnt make the relationship. Love makes the relationship and that is the concept that should be emphasized, the pain is due to the love. If pain makes you realize you love the other person then the love is still the thing making the relationship significant, not the pain. Pain and love go hand in hand yet pain comes from a significant relationship not the other way around.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Pain from significance or significance from pain: #6B
Sunday, March 21, 2010
But, even if I did believe love can be simply defined and regulated by rules I still wouldn’t think courtly love is a behavioral ideal that you should try to follow when you love someone. I believe some of the rules are a little extreme and outdated if we were to follow them in the twenty-first century.
For instance, in chapter 3: the writer states, “For when he thinks deeply of his beloved the sight of any woman seems to his mind rough and rude.” The idea of finding only one person in the world attractive is almost impossible. And the fact that if you find someone else attractive means you no longer love your love one is overdramatic. I think it is possible to love someone and find someone else attractive. In chapter 5: what persons are fit for love he opens with, “We must now see what persons are fit to bear the arms of love.” Anyone can experience love. Who is he to determine who can experience love or can not? He also tells readers a woman must change her last name to his. Now a days woman rarely change their last names and this action doesn’t necessarily mean you love your partner anymore then you do. But what also makes me object to this piece is his words in book two. He says a man should keep his relationship hidden; kept secret. But by keeping your relationship secret it may seem like you are ashamed of it.
Reading this I felt the author wasn’t thinking about how one should love another but more of how one should treat their partner in the society he lived in at the time.He sets rules rather then advice and love is one thing that shouldn't be based on rules, boarders, and regulations. Therefore, if one wanted to know what to do when they love someone courtly love wouldn’t be the ideal text to read.
Friday, March 19, 2010
Blog Post #6: Courtly Love
a. Reflect on the rules and customs of the courtly love tradition began in the Medieval period. Is courtly love a behavioral ideal that you should try to follow when you love someone? You should make reference to at least one of the texts we’ve looked concerning courtly love.
b. Just because experience of loving someone can hurt us emotionally, is the emotional pain itself just a matter of coincidence or is it a special sign that the experience is more vital in some way? Perhaps another way of looking at the question: is the experience significant because we feel pain or do we feel pain because the experience is significant?
c. Explain if you believe that courtly love is a legitimate kind of love or just a way of making eros or lust more socially acceptable. To do this, explore the aspects of courtly love that seem to separate it from eros.
POST DUE: Wednesday, March 24 by start of class.
2 RESPONSES TO POSTS DUE: Friday, March 26 by the start of class.
Monday, February 15, 2010
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